Thanks for your quick reply!
My ingest dialogue is attached (I hope!!)
I see that you're Ingesting from a selection. Do you have the RAW and JPEG images paired? See the View menu and make sure the "Combined Images" menu item has a check mark on it. If it does not have a check mark, select that menu item to combine your RAW and JPEG images together.
When they're paired, they're treated as a single item for the purposes of renaming, copying, deleting, updating metadata, rating, tagging, etc.
When they're not paired they're treated as separate unrelated items.
-Kirk