Hello Platti,
I have spent hours/days with the manuals, as well as watching lots of training videos, but happy to accept that this obviously still isn't enough time.
I do as you do to ingest photos, but I then import them into a lightroom catalogue, well not the files, but the info on where the files are etc. files/copies etc are then saved back to the original directory. I didn't think there was any other way of doing it, so I am assuming that when Lightroom asks about importing the files, it really means adding to the catalogue. But as they are already in the catalogue, I don't want I add them again.
But I will have a look at this again, my initial look can't find any configuration to save in original place, for either lightroom or iPhoto. But this is now obviously not a PM question, and...
I have now tried ACR, and as you say, it isn't a problem with ACR.
Thanks for your help.
Graham